Your Privacy

What happens between us stays between us. I don’t disclose who I see, where we meet, or the details of our time together.

I understand that many people who find me have professional, personal, and family lives they protect carefully. I do too.

Information provided for screening is used only to establish identity and safety and is treated with discretion.

Screening

All new clients are screened before we meet. No exceptions.

Screening isn’t about investigating your life. It’s simply about making sure the person I’m meeting privately is who they say they are.

Depending on the circumstances, verification may include identification, a verifiable professional identity, or references from established providers. I’ll let you know what I need after your initial inquiry.

Booking & Payment

All experiences are paid in full at the time of booking. Once payment is received, your date and time are reserved exclusively for you.

For travel experiences, any additional travel and accommodation expenses are arranged and paid in advance.

Cancellations & Rescheduling

Plans change. I understand.

With 48 hours or more notice, your payment may be transferred once to another mutually available date.

Cancellations with less than 48 hours notice and no-shows are non-refundable.

If I need to cancel, you’ll receive your choice of a full refund or transfer to another date.

Timing

Our time begins at the agreed-upon appointment time.

If you’re running late, let me know. I’ll accommodate when my schedule allows, but appointments generally cannot be extended beyond their original ending time.

If I’m responsible for the delay, you’ll receive the full time we agreed upon.

Safer Sex & Sexual Health

Sexual health is a shared responsibility.

I maintain regular STI testing and safer-sex practices and expect the same level of care and honesty from the people I see.

Before more intimate experiences, we’ll discuss testing, barriers, contraception where relevant, and anything else necessary for both of us to make informed decisions.

No one should have to guess about sexual health or boundaries.

Consent & Boundaries

Consent is active and ongoing.

We’ll talk about interests, boundaries, and expectations before we begin, particularly when BDSM, power exchange, impact play, consensual non-consent, or other advanced dynamics are involved.

Either of us can slow down, change direction, or stop at any point.

Some experiences require an established relationship and level of trust. All new clients begin with an FBSM experience before my other intimate offerings become available.

Mutual Discretion

Privacy goes both ways.

I ask that my identity and personal life be treated with the same discretion I give yours. Photographs, recordings, identifying information, and details of our time together are never shared without mutual consent.

Discretion isn’t secrecy. It’s respect.